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Jill P Guin's avatar

Melissa, I'm sending so much love to you. My Uncle just passed a few days ago, and this year has been so rough. So, I get you, and I'm so sorry. ❤️‍🩹

I took almost this entire year off with My Moms cancer because I could care less about my work. It's tough to do, and know when to do it.

I feel you on the changes, too. I've also made huge changes to my business, and I have no idea what the future holds. It is a little terrifying but also exciting; no more burnout.

I had this AHA a month ago that I don't need to help everyone or anyone for that matter, and I also don't need to be good at everything related to my business... just being honest was enough. I hope that makes sense.

Anyway, you are magic... I love you and am so grateful for sharing your experience and what you've done for me. Thank you.

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Melissa Perkins's avatar

Aww, this is going to make me emotional. I'm so sorry to hear about your uncle as well. It's been a rough past yeah for so many people. I'm happy I could make an impact on your business for the time I did.

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Jill P Guin's avatar

Thanks, friend. It's been tough, but I'm also grateful for all I have and the memories.

AND, you made a massive impact on me and my business. Beyond! I still love my website (also HATE Showit, but I'll save changes for my rebrand ;)

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Wilda Casado's avatar

Melissa, I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your uncle. It’s so difficult to keep running a business when it feels like everything around you is falling apart. I’m really glad to see you back, though—especially on Substack! Sometimes we just need to disconnect for a bit, and that’s okay.

If you ever need a sounding board for anything job search related, I’m happy to help! I’m feeling a bit guilty because I *absolutely* should have been more in the loop since I am in fact a member of The Designers’ Cohort, but I got a new laptop last year and haven’t downloaded Discord on it yet 🫠 I should probably go do that. So excited to see all the new things you’re doing this year 💓

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Melissa Perkins's avatar

Ha, don't feel bad! I'll let you know if I have any questions. I honestly started considering it seriously when you spoke so highly of your experience. I appreciate it 🖤

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Chanel Greenlaw's avatar

Hey Melissa I just wanted to say I'm sorry for the loss of your uncle. I lost my dad in 2024 and know exactly how you are feeling trying to run a business through the grief. I still haven't quite got back into my business fully yet, and I think it will still be a while until I do. I also have to say going back to a full time job has re-ignited passion for my business. I love doing what I do, making money doing it, but also still getting benefits and paid for showing up somewhere but that I can leave at the door at the end of the day. It's all about balance for me. Sending you lots of love <3

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Melissa Perkins's avatar

I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. It's hard to handle the two and run a business the way you feel like you "should". Which is why I'm looking into full time work - I would love the option to disconnect fully at the end of the day. Thank you for your comment 🖤

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Jamie R Cox's avatar

2024 was a wild ride! Thanks for sharing with such honesty—it makes me feel a little less alone.

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Melissa Perkins's avatar

2024 was super wild. I feel like a lot of creatives & entrepreneurs felt the same too.

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